Don't Give Up

I see a lot of students come and go into the first salsa class. Many of whom come for fun, a new experience or because they were directed by a friend or spouse. Standing before a fresh group, it's easy to see the tension in everyone's eyes from past dance traumas, comments from peers or the infamous Dancing With The Stars Syndrome. No one, even those with trained, are going to jump out on the dance floor ready for every salsa contest. It's just not the way. Learning salsa is like a language; you have to use it everyday and learn from mistakes. It takes a certain stick-to-it attitude and determination that makes a confident dancer and one who is fun to dance with!

The learning curve in salsa comes from being open to new experiences and vulnerable to allow yourself to fall, have fun and listen to the details. Think of it like learning to walk..you are going to fall and forget what you learned five minutes ago. So, here are some suggestions.

1. Approach learning salsa with a calm attitude and not try to expect so much in the beginning. That way you won't set yourself up for failure.

2. Listen to every detail from the teacher or video. Salsa is not about the patterns, but expressing yourself to the music and your partner. In that way you will find a greater achievement from the dance and probably enjoy it more.

3. Become friends with the people in class. Exchange phone numbers, email addresses and go out and show your stuff. It's the social community that keeps it going.

4. Be proud of who you are as an individual without comparing body shape, background and experience.

5. Listen to salsa and love the music. That is what it is all about.

6. Don't get discouraged if you mess up or forget a move. Come to class with an intention, bring a camera or notebook. Oh! did I forget to mention: Come to class!!

7. Ask lots of questions and never say you know it all because, well, you don't.:) I am always learning.

8. Create goals for yourself and get others involved to help you.

9. Ask questions to the members of your local salsa band about the music and instruments so you know what you are dancing to.

10. Salsa a day will keep the doctor away. IF you dance or do something salsa related everyday, the enjoyment will grow. Don't come to class only once a week and expect great things. Take all that you can.

Never give up your opportunity to learn so keep coming to class, relax and enjoy the salsa.

Salsa Love,

Diana